Getting a girl to like you is actually quite easy. The trick is to be focused on first finding a girl that shows interest. Many guys get caught up on one girl. If the girl doesn't like you, you can't try to fight human nature. First you have to find a girl, be presentable, and be interesting. Once you have sparked the interest, many girls will like you and it will happen automatically. The trick is getting enough girls interested in talking with you.
It's not always as easy as some people think, but it's usually never as hard as people try to make it sound. You just have to repeat a method a few times, and you will probably find success. But don't get ahead of yourself. You can't fight human nature. So you have to find things that work towards your advantage.
How do you get a girl to like you? You need to be different. Girls do not like plain and boring. They do like exciting and unique, and adventurous. First decide what you want. Do you want quite, or outgoing, blond or brunette. Try to get specific as you can about the type of girl you want. Then you need to find out what sort of things that girl likes. If you want an adventurous girl, you have no chance if you continue to "be yourself' if you are someone who is afraid of his own shadow. You have to become the person that they want to be with. Then spend time doing the things they like to do with them. If climbing rocks gets their adrenaline going, and gets there heart pounding, and you go everyday to climb with them... they're going to associate those good feelings with you.
The problem with many guys is they don't have enough girls to even show interest. Another common problem is they refuse to change. In either case, the solution is the same, approach and talk to lots of girls until you are more comfortable, and you can measure what tends to work more often than not in getting a girl interested in you. Once a girl shows interest then you can get their number and start doing the things they like doing with them. Even if it's not with the girl you want to like you, you have to learn to practice, practice, and practice some more. Figure out what makes girls feel good (laugh), and what doesn't, and at what stages. You need to actually practice getting girl’s interest and attention, and that may mean failing a few times.
The dating industry is a big business. There are thousands of products, and millions of people buy them every year. But don't expect girls to automatically be interested in meeting you if your approach is off regardless of what pheromone cologne you might use. The problem is no approach works all of the time, and no approach that has success when used by one guy will always produce the same result with someone else.
